Ok, today I am going to specifically dedicate this post to someone who decided to hurt me through her actions today. Well I did warn her lor :P

Well this is how the day started. This crazy Vitz sensed that something was amiss and so she actually dropped a text to Moo-y Moo to which someone didn't reply for more than 12 hours lor. So Vitz  dropped another text that went like "Me is ignored" and someone then dropped the hint that someone was kinda down. So I asked what was wrong to which someone went like she "didn't want to bring me down" and apparently, "sadness is contagious". So my choleric disposition took the upperhand. I just replied saying "so you want me to be a fair-weathered friend who only partake in your happy moments?" and I even challenged her saying that I would be a "honest fair-weathered friend". I mean, I am fine with being a fair-weathered friend if that was how she would want me to be lor. Then someone told me what was bothering her. Tsk tsk. 

So right now, I am going to reminisce some moments. So at least, my readers would understand why I got a little agitated. 




So one day someone met me for dinner and she was too distracted because she was digging something from a big shopping bag. So I waited for her to settle down and suddenly, she gave me a gift and a note. So this is the gift. A gorgeous-looking mug :)


This cute little message came alongside the gorgeous-looking mug :)




A sweet little message from Moo


So at that juncture, I was wondering why she gave me the gift and that sweet little message. So I asked her to which someone replied as such :-



I loved the 'take-home' message. Really loved it. 



Hmmm so let's continue from where I had left.



Ok, so Moo-y Moo, you can be there for me and I cannot be there for you as well ?. I mean your theory of "sadness is contagious" can work both ways you know :P ! I don't have a certain definition for the term 'friendship', but I will always follow the tenet of my conscience. I always will. If you had been there for me (with or without that ulterior motive) I would always be there for you too. That certain precept of mine has even driven me to forgive too many assholes from the past. Assholes who had broken my heart into smithereens and who had pushed me into an abyss with no return. But then, I guess Father Time had strengthen the muscles of my heart. So fret not, I will always be there even through the fluctuating seasons. I know I would be the sort to take the bullet for a friend. But of course, Father Time has drilled me with the lessons to give two hoots to people who decide to fuck with my feelings by betraying/backstabbing me. I mean at the end of the day, - what's the point of being with people who would never think twice to backstab/betray you ?.

Soooooo dearest MOO, stop acting like a doggy dog. The next time you give me such "tatuvams", I swear I would change your name to Woof Mu***** and not Moo Mu***** :P 



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Well I received this slightly an hour ago. I mean the parting humour somewhat makes it seem less intense but then again, thank you for this. I have always believed that it's a herculean task to wear one's heart on their sleeves. So, I respect the fact that you aired your thoughts out so well. So here's my message - like I said, I know the pain of getting backstabbed and betrayed. Sometimes some people underestimate the pain. I mean for an instance, Scenario #1 - you tell Person A "I used to like Green Curry" and Scenario #2 - you tell Person B "I was raped once" and let's say both Person A and Person B decides to backstab you. So which instance would hurt you the most ?. Definitely the 2nd scenario. Many of us are guilty of being in scenario #1. They undermine the relevance of the instances. They undermine the intense of the instances. They undermine the pain of an individual. They certainly do. I have always believed in fitting an instance to a context. So at this juncture, I believe Person B would have inflicted more damage than Person A. But of course, idiots would never be able to sieve out the difference and would continue to harp on how you had backstabbed them by telling your group of friends that they had loved green curry. I mean we all need idiots to form the lower tier to shit onto later on. So yea. So, I know the pain ah and I'm not the sort to go around backstabbing people, nor stealing their friends, their moments, cheating on them, betraying them and etc etc. 

Like I had mentioned, when I make mistakes, I truly am "man" enough to face them and if I know I am in the right, I would go all out and fight for them. Even if idiots partake in character assassination with their fabrications, it would never tickle my moral fibers. I would fight till justice is meted out. That is just me. My 26-year long of observation and knowledge have made me decide that I will never be the girl who would ever find great satisfaction in being subjugated. So rest assured. I will thread on good waters and cheating if off the charts. Oh... you may not need a bulletproof vest - you got me :P ! Chey !! :P


“There are many realities. There are many versions of what may appear
obvious. Whatever appears as the unshakeable truth, its exact opposite
may also be true in another context. After all, one's reality is but
perception, viewed through various prisms of context.” 


- The Immortals of Meluha

Vithiya 'Vitz'

11 Jan 1987

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