Hello world. Today I am going to bare my (naked) thoughts out. So technically I am not going to paint it to mask its true intention but rather, speak of the most transparent of thoughts. So hang in there.



Anyways, allow me to digress a little. I finally caught 3 idiots ! Ok, to be really frank, I kind of planned it with a few friends to watch but sooner they couldn't meet up and yadadada. And so the whole plan was shelved. I really hate this. Sometimes, when you watch this particular film on a DVD, you may go like "oh fuck ! I should have caught it in the theatres !! ". I got that exact same sentiment when I watched this flick on a DVD. So I have decided not to be overly dependent on my friends when it comes to movies.


And 3 idiots was really good ! It was making me laugh and think. Well, I can't quite criticise it ! It was really good :) and obviously, AAL IZZ WELL peeps !


And I am so in love with Zoobi doobi !!





OK, now a few (naked) thoughts :-


1) Please do not treat your friends like an option :- Firstly, some people may embrace the idea of MIA-ing saying that you do it to channel your thoughts into much more important things. But who the hell mentioned that a relationship to a friend isn't important ? You weep, spend time, shed sweat and blood to build a relationship with a stranger and you make him/her your friend and you tell him/her things about yourself in order to ensure that that person opens up to you and in no time, you become closer to that person. Now that is how a relationship is formed. But sadly, some people are so blinded by the whole MIA-ing trend here.


Frankly, I hate it. I don't support it. One day you would MIA and then when you look back, you would realise that the distance between you and that "close-once-upon-a-time" friend would be greater than what you had imagined it to be. And making a "guest appearance" wouldn't help solve the problem. You may come back but isn't it really selfish and cheap of you to conclude that your friends should always be there for you no matter what happens ? If that's exactly what you think then I am sorry to say this , you are really selfish. Some friends wouldn't give a damn about those who had MIA-ed but some do really take you back. But please don't use friendship as a cushion to fall back onto. Show the same level of dedication to your friendship too (as much as you show to other objectives). You may treat someone/something else as your world but please don't treat your friends like a mere option because one day you will be void of options.


2) Know the full story first :- I do realise that some people may switch sides easily to antagonise others. For instance, Person A might be close to Person B. And Person A may have a small disagreement with Person C and when Person A and B fights, Person B would switch to Person C's side and start spewing comments of Person A. I really think this should stop. Well, only Person A and B know what went wrong and you should listen to both sides of the story before coming up with a conclusion. So know the story inside out before you switch sides (and) of course, hold your tongue.


3) Why does a womaniser attains support ? :- I don't quite understand this. It is highly obvious how some womanisers breaks someone else's heart just like that and would immediately put up a false front and mention "I am clean. I was depressed when it happened but I am sorry now". Honestly how many of you'll think that a "sorry" is enough to nurse a broken heart ?. Think carefully. Just because you didn't go through that pain doesn't mean that that pain is tolerable.


Also, I think some girls are easily vulnerable. A womaniser may break their heart and push them off the steep and yet, they would believe that they're being nice by liking that womaniser's comments and pictures on Facebook and blogs (perhaps). I mean c'mon ! I know that we all should move on but what's the need to sell your pride ? Where the hell is your dignity ? Do you want to give the womaniser a chance to smile at your stupidity ? Some girls really irritate the shit out of me ! They can talk lengths on how they want to kick his ass and etc etc but when they happen to meet him, they would swallow their pride and smile at that person. For once, show that you don't give a fuck to all this manipulative assholes !


And obviously he's going to be ranting stupid thoughts about you to his future girlfriends ! Womanisers like the one I know, simply ace at twisting the whole story and making himself look like the one in the right. So the bottom line is, as long as those who are willing to be cheated exist, cheaters will continue to cheat ! So bloody hell, enough of the "being nice" bullshit ! Its your time to show the real girl power and give a kungfu kick right on his balls !


4) Do you know that Karma is bitch ? :- Well, I happen to know Person X. Person X is the #1 selfish bitch whom I have ever met in my whole 23 years of my life ! I cannot believe that a person like X lives in this modern generation !. X and her family stay in a house and apparently the parents couldn't settle off the outstanding amount and as per law, they were told to move out of their house. All this could have been avoided if X had consented to putting her name as the 3rd owner to "continue" having the HDB loan. But the good part here is, X will not be paying any money for the house and it'll be the parents who would continue to pay the money. Its just that the parents are not able to declare their occupations due to some valid reasons.


X's dad actually spent up to 50K and even more on her fickle-minded pursuits like trying to purchase a business and accumulating losses due to her lack of interest, churning up unnecessary school fees and penalties - just because she doesn't want to study after signing up for the courses. I mean we're not talking about $100 here but $50k ! I mean why couldn't X think about how much of blood and sweat that went into it. She even challenged her parents saying that "she don't need their help to survive" and that "they shouldn't come begging them for money". I mean what kind of a daughter are you ? Such a selfish dog !


As a 3rd party, I myself feel so angry. I really feel like slapping the bitch out of her for being rude to her parents like that !. I have never spoke to X's dad but from what I know, X's dad is a gem of a person and I can see how much he sacrifices for his well-loved children. I really don't think that he deserve such a treatment. And I despise children who treat their parents like scumbags ! I really was heartbroken to know those vicious words X used on her dad. I am really sad that I am so helpless. If only I was in a situation where I can help, I certainly would help. But I cannot believe that a 3rd person here can feel more for such a gem of a person than X- his own daughter. Shame on you X. Don't ever think I would respect you for anything. Even if things go back to normal and you are forgiven, trust me, I'll never ever speak to you. I have absolutely no respect for a fucked up corpse like you !


I have personally always followed this principle of mine for long and that is : If you can't make your parents happy, you might as well die ! X, if you can't make them happy, at least don't break their poor hearts ! Damn you ! I feel so angry when I even think about you and blog ! I am glad that at least, my friend and your sibling isn't selfish like you. I know for sure that my friend will look after her parents like precious gems till she breathes. I am proud of my friend ! If only I had you as my friend, Miss X, I swear, I would've strangled you.


Please people, I beg all my readers out there not to be selfish. Please don't expect something out of your selfless acts but rather do it all because you want to see a smile on that person's face. Please !

Vithiya 'Vitz'

11 Jan 1987

Undergrad (Psychology)

Manchester United

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