Sunday, December 20, 2009
Good afternoon readers . I am going to be 'ranting' about a very different range of subject today and if that is going to induce boredom in you , I suggest you cancel the page now but if you are really into human rights and solely believe in it , then continue reading .
I was just browsing through a few selected pages today and something caught my attention . I've always respected and adored Sheena Jebal's views on society and all . * Incase you people don't know who she is , she was the female host in the show called "Vidiyalukku Illai Thuram" which aired on Vasantham Central * . Well , she mentioned something about "Acid Terrorism " in her page and that simply took my attention to a serious problem faced by women in Pakistan .
Do read on ..
Faces of these women were mutilated by acid, and this is the work of bastards who call themselves men. This is such a strange way of solving problems (or revenge) in Pakistan. You can look at these poor women and learn why the acid was thrown into their faces........ To even think that such inhumane acts still continue to exist in this world, is hard to swallow! Very painful images about the really dark-side of modern-day life!
Be grateful for what you already have, cos life is not always all that more pleasant on the other side of the fence.
Saira Liaqat, 26, poses for the camera as she holds a portrait of herself before being burned, at her home in Lahore, Pakistan, Wednesday, July 9, 2008. When she was fifteen, Saira was married to a relative who would later attack her with acid after insistently demanding her to live with him, although the families had agreed she wouldn't join him until she finished school. Saira has undergone plastic surgery 9 times to try to recover from her scars.
Shameem Akhter, 18, poses for a photograph at her home in Jhang, Pakistan, Wednesday, July 10, 2008. Shameem was raped by three boys who then threw acid on her three years ago. Shameem has undergone plastic surgery 10! times to try to recover from her scars.
Najaf Sultana, 16, poses for a photograph at her home in Lahore, Pakistan on Wednesday, July 9, 2008. At the age of five Najaf was burned by her father while she was sleeping, apparently because he didn't want to have another girl in the family. As a result of the burning Najaf became blind and after being abandoned by both her parents she now lives with relatives. She has undergone plastic surgery around 15 times to try to recover from her scars.
Bushra Shari, 39, adjusts her veil as she poses for a photograph in Lahore, Pakistan, Friday, July. 11, 2008. Bushra was burned with acid thrown by her husband five years ago because she was trying to divorce him. She has undergone plastic surgery 25 times to try to recover from her scars.
Shehnaz Usman, 36, poses for a photograph in Lahore, Pakistan, Sunday, Oct. 26, 2008. Shehnaz was burned with acid by a relative due to a familial dispute five years ago. Shehnaz has undergone plastic surgery 10 times to try to recover from her scars.
Irum Saeed, 30, poses for a photograph at her office at the Urdu University of Islamabad, Pakistan, Thursday, July 24, 2008. Irum was burned on her face, back and shoulders twelve years ago when a boy whom she rejected for marriage threw acid on her in the middle of the street. She has undergone plastic surgery 25 times to try to recover from her scars.
Kanwal Kayum, 26, poses for a photograph in Lahore, Pakistan, Sunday, Oct. 26, 2008. Kanwal was burned with acid one year ago by a boy whom she rejected for marriage. She has never undergone plastic surgery.
Soo?? . Is it such a bitter pill too hard to swallow ? It better be . Let's face the truth - we people are too lucky to belong to the other side of the country that believes in compulsory education to both genders . Well , discrimination is definitely minimal in this country ( I shouldn't say it's an absolute zero because nothing is absolute in today's world ) . Hence many of us are well-informed , well-read and we can articulate our expressions and thoughts well unlike others . Women of the world , can you believe how lucky you are ?. I count myself highly lucky because I'm definitely not a submissive girl and oh fuck , I don't believe in male chauvinism and I strongly think misogynist can go fly kite ! So can you believe a girl like me living in such a "girls should always be brow-beaten society" ?. Yes .. that's what I am talking about .
Women of the world ( or rather , the developed countries ) , please realise how lucky and blessed you are . You are a woman for a reason - you know what you are capable of and all . There is no reason for you to be brow-beaten to a man . I mean , yes guys are supposed to be stronger and etc etc but that SIMPLY doesn't give them the right to ensure we become their dolls . C'mon ladies , come out of that cage . If not , honestly there's no difference in being in a developed or undeveloped country . Each affected woman is coming forth to share her stories to ensure we don't go through that and if you are not going to make a decision now , then there's no worth in her sacrifices !! . Firstly , step up - in every way . We can always be better than guys in everything - education , physical activities , looks , thoughts and the list goes on . We should always save our own self-respect and we cannot rely on the other gender to save our self-respect . A guy should only be there to complete your life , not to control you . Remember this , you don't owe a living to anyone else except to God ! God created you for a reason and so we owe our lives to him and not anyone else . And ladies , I read an excellent article on "Why women stay with controlling men " and trust me , all the points were so crystal-clear . Please visit this website http://psychcentral.com/lib/2009/why-women-stay-with-controlling-men/ for more .
ONE LOVE . ONE LIFE . LIVE IT !
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