Sunday, June 21, 2009
Just when the dark clouds seem to overpower the whites , I saw that blinding light . It was an interesting twist of events . But then again , change is the only constant . Right ?.
Anyways , I want to dedicate this entry to my dad . I know this sounds so cliche and something that may have been ripped off from tamil/hindi flicks but hey , those scenes may have been the actual representation itself . So yes .
And , my dad is my superstar ! He is my hero ! . I can never forget those things that my dad have done for me . Really . Infact just last week , my friends and I were talking about something when my 21st birthday celebration came into the picture . I was telling them that my 21st wouldn't have happened without my dad . It was all his idea , his plans and his hard-earned money . Then suddenly Nesh said " Yes Vitz , on that day I saw a different Mr Kumar . He was the most happiest man in the world on your 21st " . Well that is definitely true . My dad was the MOST happiest man in the world . His happiness knew no boundaries .
My dad have always managed to remain as a hero in my eyes - really . I have alot of respect for my dad and I don't talk back to him or etc . But once this year , I was in a very bad mood and I actually screamed at my dad . We both really have temper and we had a huge argument . That was the 1st time I talked back to my dad . A moment which I really regret . I'm sorry dad ! .
My DAD IS MY HERO !
1) My dad was really drunk one day and I brought him to my parent's room . Before I could push him onto his bed , he dropped to the ground and refused to sleep on the bed . He ended up sleeping on the floor . Infact , I tried waking him up but he slept . He was even snoring ! . Then suddenly , I saw a stupid cockroach in their room . I woke my mom up but she was too busy sleeping . And my dad was knocked out . So I was really terrified . I didn't know what to do . I brought the insecticide with me but I was too afraid to spray it on the cockroach . Honestly , I burst out crying . I couldn't take it . Suddenly , my dad went like " Vithi Ma .. whats going on . Why aren't you sleeping ? . Then I told him about the cockroach and he actually woke up and started running after the cockroach . I got too scared that I ran into my own room . Suddenly , he called out to me . He was literally holding the cockroach and went like " Vithi Ma , you're afraid of this puny thing ? . Heck it , daddy's here for u " and he threw it away . And he went back to sleep - on his BED .
2) There was once I had to go to school in the afternoon . So I told my dad to set the alarm for me . So I woke up at about 10+ and I got ready to go to school . And my stupid grandfather took my key and went out . He only returned back home at around 4 pm . I was starving like a mad pig ( there was no food at home . I had to eat out ) . So on that day , when my dad got back home from work , he asked me if I went to school and I told him the truth . Then all of a sudden , he just started shouting at my grandpa . He was like " what the hell would you have done if there was a fire and she was stuck in the house ? . Don't you dare take her keys to go out . You have your own key . The next time I hear this from my daughter , you're gone " . And Gayatri Devi was lucky enough to hear this conversation . I was talking to her on the phone when this happened ! HAHA
3) There was a period of time when I was totally broken and I felt so down . My brother and my mom were teasing me and I totally couldn't take it . I burst out crying and my dad ran to me and he hugged me and went like " why do you care about them . You've got me . Daddy will support you no matter what " and he kissed my forehead . And after that I went out and he apparently scolded both my mom and brother and ensured they won't tease me anymore . Infact , they don't even dare tease me anymore !
4) The amount of money he spent on my 21st totally shook me big time but he didn't give a damn about it . He said he did this for my happiness . I mean , my dad was soo cool enough to dance on my 21st's dancefloor just to make me happy !
5) When I was young - when I was in Kindergarten , this big bully actually use this pencil and stabbed me on my arm . I was crying badly and my mom brought me to the hospital . When my dad got to know about this incident , I swear he would've nearly killed that big bully , my teacher and his parents ! He was soo pissed with them
6) When I was really young , I was about 3-4 years old . I was hospitalised because I had some growth and had to undergo an operation to have it removed . So I was sleeping on my bed when suddenly some mad woman tried to kidnap me . Infact , she carried me away and thank god my parents bumped into her and my dad nearly punched her . But my mom stopped him . After that my dad argued with the doctor and made sure they operated me on that day itself because he didn't wanted to trust that hospital anymore . So while they operated me , my dad cried a river . And he stayed in the hospital - just by my side . He didn't dare bat an eyelid !
7) Oh yes , when I was 2 years old and my brother was 1 , my brother accidentally dropped into a very very dirty drain . Infact it was extremely stinky . My dad instantly jumped into that drain , swam really fast and rescued my baby brother ! . My heroic dad !
8) My dad gives me alot of freedom . I can do anything that I want to . Infact I can disappear for 5 days and not turn up too . He really trusts me big big time . But till now , I've never misused that freedom of mine . I mean which cool dad will allow his daughter to travel to M'sia for shopping all alone with her friends at a young age ? . My cool dad did ! He's really awesome !
9) Infact my dad HATES me working during holidays and all . But I've told him that I wish to me an independent girl . He respected my decision and allowed me to work . YES ! And I know that he will financially support me no matter what , but I've never taken that to my advantage . I really save up as much as I can because I don't wish to spend his own hard-earned money like liquid .
10) My dad taught me self-defence . Because he wanted me to be a strong and independent girl who would not be afraid of rapist and all . Infact he spent 2 hours teaching me self-defence !
11) I can literally talk about anything and everything to my dad . He would listen to my thoughts ! . A cool dad !
12) Alot of people have said that I take after my dad . My dad and I have alot of similarities . And he always boast about it like a proud dad ! He had always wanted to have a girl baby and his dreams came true on 11th of Jan 1987 . He was the most happiest man on earth on that day ! And my mom told me that he literally ran after those nurses when they carried me to put me into that incubator thingy . And when nurses said that I might not survive ( due to my size and weight ) , he visited each and every temple to pray for me .
MY DAD IS MY SUPERSTAR , MY HERO !
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY DAD . I don't want to make any empty promises here but you know everything . So enjoy today dad ! And yes , I am planning to cook for my dad . And guys , just to let you know , my dad wouldn't allow me to stand near the stove . He's that over-protective . So I always secretly cook . But today , I want to whip up his favourite dish . So hopefully , it'll turn out well !
My superstar! - My strong dad - look at his abs !
Yes , it was taken this year on his birthday . Haha , I was pretty shagged man !!
Chillout at Wilkie Edge
Shaik and Kabi's traditional pose
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