Subjugation at it's optimum I believe . But heck , can we all believe in being subservient ?. If they throw lemons and orange at you , what would you do ?. If it's you and I , we would simply die . We would disappear into the dark abyss . But it's not an undeviating curse . Or is it ?. We should all learn to catch them and make juice out of them .


Simply said , bloody beings , stop dwelling into the past . There are quite an array of opportunities unfolding right before you . So what should we do , grap them before your enemy does .



I had a wonderful talk with Mrs Meya on the 21st of August . Oh man . She's so intelligent ! . Anyways , my lovely mentor told me that I've changed alot - since 2005 . She told me that she's very very proud of me . She told me that she's proud of the fact that I'm doing well in my studies . Oh man , she really made my day .


We spoke for like hours . She told me that I'm a very matured person but it's just that I'm hiding that matured person inside me and put on a "hehehe" mask . She told me that she didn't know that I can think that maturedly . Haha . Compliments . She told me that I can go far .


Soon , I opened up to her and I told her that I am suffering from intellectual arrogance . She told me that it's good that I've identified my problem and she gave me solutions to overcome them . She even told me that I should relax on my "perfectionist" tendencies .


Oh yes , there's something that she also told me . There was once , she asked me why I wanted to work hard and so , I gave her my reasons . She told me this " Vithiya darling , we people , always tend to give alot to others and yet forget to give ourselves something . Do you know what that is ? " . I gave her a blank look and she went like " It's love " . I was quite taken back by her comment . She told me that I have a firm ground but it's just that I don't appreciate my own hardwork . She also told me that I should love myself and that I should compliment myself for my hardwork .


She so reminded me of Morrie Schwartz . Me , being in Mitch Albom's shoes of course . And co-incidentally , we spoke on a Tuesday too . Hehe . Now , I've got to write my own " Tuesdays with Meya " .


Talking about Morrie Schwartz , I read up on his talk on marriage . If you want your marriage to last , please abide by these rules .


1) Respect the other person


2) Learn how to compromise


3) Talk Openly


4) Have a common set of values in life


Your values must be alike and the biggest one of those values is *** Your belief in the importance of your marriage ***


Love each other or perish . So short yet so succint . Marriage and love is not always about sex . It's beyond that . True love is certainly all about feelings that bind one to the other . Maybe , we can test out our partners . Marry someone when you know that they will be there for you when you are at the lowest point in your life . When you can no longer eat solid food but depend on the liquidfied food that your partner prepares for you , when your partner loves you for who you are , when your partner whispers sweet stuff to you knowing you are deaf , when your partner embraces you and showers you with love even though he/she is in pain . Loving is not a process to differ when things change . It's habitual . So nothing should stop when things change .Such partners are hard to find . But God have planned a life for us . He knows who is meant for us . Even if it takes time , just wait . " Do not awaken love till the appropriate time comes " .



Oh wells . Something quite heartwarming happened recently . This year one guy came up to me went like " Hi . Are you Vithiya " . I said yes and he went like " Oh , I heard alot about you . So is that true " . This time , I was in doubts . I was like " Erm .. so what is that " . He went like " My teacher told me that repeats can be dangerous . They come back strong and my teacher mentioned you . So , I wanna ask you , what keeps you going ? Weren't you afraid of losing out again ? " . I told him something that I took off from a movie . So this is how it goes . " Dude , there may be many reasons for a person's failure but there is only one reason for a person's success and that is : hardwork . Believe in yourself . You reap what you sow . So sow more " . That dude gave me a smile and said " Ok . Anyway , I didn't know that you were this matured cos I've always seen you doing your monkeyish stuff " . Haha . I know that was embarassing . HAHA.


Now , I'm at loss . Must I really show out my matured side ?. Even Aminah told me that she couldn't believe that I could think maturedly . Ahhhh ... . But then again , if i were to be matured , I wouldn't have fun . I mean , I would stop cracking jokes and all . Hehe . Nevermind , I shall be the way I am now . I want to spread happiness . Happiness is a contagious disease . Lets spread happiness and make people happy . I mean , what's the point of not being happy . Nobody have ensured us another lifetime . So we must live life to the fullest now . We ourselves cannot promise us a new tomorrow . The sword of damocles is always hanging over our heads . We'll need a Morrie Schwartz . Thank God , I've got a replica of him . Mrs Meya , I love you and I'll never disappoint you . This I promise .


Last but not least , does anyone have the "conversation with God " and " five people you meet in heaven " book ? . I want to read it .




That's me and Pravin . We were trying to act "beng" . Anyways , Pravin removed 3 buttons and his chest hair was pretty obvious . HAHA . It was freaking funny to see that much of chest hair on an individual . Oh God ! .

Vithiya 'Vitz'

11 Jan 1987

Undergrad (Psychology)

Manchester United

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